We get your stuff back from your ex. No contact needed.
Get an ExChanger to handle the awkward logistics so you don't have to.
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Why Use ExChange?

Zero awkwardness
You don't want to see them again.
Long overdue
It's been sitting there for months.
Tired of being ignored?
You've tried asking, and got ignored.
ExChange is about creating space for yourself.
Talk to them when you're ready, not when you have to.
What People Are Saying

“I thought it'd be weird, but it was actually kind of a relief. They got my guitar back without me having to send a single text.”
— Tyler O., Houston
“I didn't want to text him. I just wanted my stuff back. ExChange made it easy, and I didn't have to say a word.”
— Jasmine R., NYCSimple, Transparent Pricing
Hire an exchanger to coordinate with your ex on your behalf for a one time fee of $20. This fee covers communication and coordination with your ex.
- ✔️Professional, stress-free communication with your ex
- ✔️Discreet and confidential handling of your belongings
- ✔️Save time and avoid awkward, emotional encounters
Frequently Asked Questions
What is an ExChanger?+
An ExChanger is a professional mediator who helps coordinate the exchange of belongings between former partners. They handle all communication and logistics to minimize stress and awkward interactions.
How long does the exchange process take?+
The typical exchange process takes 5-7 days, depending on the complexity of items to be exchanged and the responsiveness of both parties.
What if my ex refuses to cooperate?+
Our ExChangers are trained in conflict resolution and will make a reasonable effort to establish communication. If your ex remains unresponsive or uncooperative after several attempts, we'll provide you with documentation of our efforts and suggest alternative solutions.
Is my information kept confidential?+
Yes, we take privacy seriously. All personal information and exchange details are kept strictly confidential and are only shared with the assigned ExChanger handling your case.
What items can be exchanged through your service?+
We can help coordinate the exchange of personal belongings, shared items, and even important documents. However, we cannot handle the exchange of illegal items or substances.
Do you handle valuable items?+
Yes, we coordinate the exchange of valuable items, however we do not offer insurance on the exchange process or guarantees when it comes to the use of third-party transport / delivery services.
What areas do you service?+
We currently operate in the continental US. Delivery or transportation options may vary depending on locality.
What is included in the cost of the ExChanger?+
The hiring fee for your ExChanger covers all communication and coordination between you and your ex to get facilitate the exchange of your property. The hiring fee does not include item shipping, logistics or transportation costs. While our ExChangers can suggest logistics options, all delivery or shipping costs are separate and handled directly by the parties involved.
It can be easy if you want it to be.
You click one button. We reach out to your ex, coordinate the exchange, and get your stuff back. No awkward texts, no drama.